Errors: refuse links the probe can't play (with Put it up anyway), plain error texts, and others see who can't play

report.error / state.members[].error (optional, no protocol bump): an
errored member is out of the ready gate until its player opens the media
or the media changes; others see "Bob can't play this: ..." and a mark
on the avatar; your own pill offers Retry (reload).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

apps/desktop/lib/src/screens/home/picked_media.dart

@@ -16,7 +16,10 @@ enum LinkRelay { direct, server, me }
 final class LinkMedia extends PickedMedia {
   final String url;
   final LinkRelay relay;
-  const LinkMedia(this.url, {this.relay = LinkRelay.direct});
+  /// Put it up even though this computer's probe found a problem
+  /// (`LinkProbe.problem`): the server or a friend may still open it.
+  final bool anyway;
+  const LinkMedia(this.url, {this.relay = LinkRelay.direct, this.anyway = false});
 
   @override
   String get label {