Restructure step 0: test safety net, AppEvent/Notifier seam, platform ports, protocol 16 planned

- Tests: the four known failures fixed (test-side causes), one duplicate
  file and four detail-pinning cases removed, every test that pins
  behaviour the restructure changes tagged with its step.
- Every toast, sound and activity-log line goes through Notifier.notify
  (AppEvent), mapped one-to-one to today's behaviour.
- Platform ports (shell, URLs, folders, link resolver, system
  notifications) with desktop implementations; window_manager, Process
  and file_picker now live only in platform/desktop/.
- ROADMAP: protocol 16 planned; app id dev.foxyz.starsync.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

packages/server/test/hardening_test.dart

@@ -1,3 +1,5 @@
+// restructure: rewrite in step 1 (Connection + Identity + Presence): "anyone
+// sits anyone out" (Away); the rest stays.
 import 'dart:async';
 import 'dart:convert';
 import 'dart:io';

packages/server/test/lifecycle_test.dart

@@ -1,3 +1,5 @@
+// restructure: rewrite in step 1 (Connection + Identity + Presence): a
+// socket close no longer removes the member (explicit `bye`, grace).
 import 'dart:async';
 import 'dart:convert';
 import 'dart:io';

packages/server/test/queue_test.dart

@@ -1,3 +1,5 @@
+// restructure: rewrite in step 1 (Connection + Identity + Presence): queue
+// `by` and adder-only keys follow the lasting client id.
 import 'dart:async';
 import 'dart:convert';
 import 'dart:io';

packages/server/test/server_auth_test.dart

@@ -1,3 +1,6 @@
+// restructure: rewrite in step 1 (Connection + Identity + Presence):
+// "proto mismatch rejected" (min/max range, refusal frame) and "silent
+// socket dropped and member removed" (Gone with grace); the rest stays.
 import 'dart:async';
 import 'dart:convert';
 import 'dart:io';

packages/server/test/sync_wave_test.dart

@@ -1,3 +1,6 @@
+// restructure: rewrite in step 1 (Connection + Identity + Presence): the
+// resume-token takeover becomes a lasting client id; ping/pong and the
+// seek echo stay.
 import 'dart:async';
 import 'dart:convert';
 import 'dart:io';