Protocol 11: sit out replaces kicking; nudge

Anyone can sit anyone out (host included); only you bring yourself back.
Out members stay in chat and the party, never block or count, and load no
media; a card with the live position and Join back (Space) replaces the
video. The mini player's x sits you out; optionally idle does too. Nudge:
the server forwards it to the target only (3/s, 20/min per sender); the
target hears the nudge sound, gets a toast and a taskbar attention
request. Kick, its messages, errors and dialog are gone.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

apps/desktop/lib/src/state/session_state.dart

@@ -144,7 +144,7 @@ class ServerCrashed implements Exception {
 }
 
 /// A fresh per-hosting key: the app's own client sends it in hello to be
-/// recognised as the (unkickable) host.
+/// recognised as the host (`members[].host`).
 String newHostKey() {
   final r = Random.secure();
   return base64Url.encode([for (var i = 0; i < 24; i++) r.nextInt(256)]);
@@ -159,7 +159,8 @@ class SessionState {
   final status = signal(const HealthStatus(HealthSeverity.info, 'idle'));
   final SfxService sfx = SynthSfx(
     volume: () => AppSettings.instance.soundVolume.peek(),
-    enabled: (k) => !AppSettings.instance.soundsOff.peek().contains(k.name),
+    // A nudge is an explicit poke: it ignores its switch (not the volume).
+    enabled: (k) => k == SfxKind.nudge || !AppSettings.instance.soundsOff.peek().contains(k.name),
     presetFor: soundPresetFor,
   );
   late final SessionCoordinator coordinator = SessionCoordinator(sfx: sfx);
@@ -183,7 +184,6 @@ class SessionState {
 
   @visibleForTesting
   ServerIsolate? get hostedServer => _server;
-  void Function()? _stopKickWatch;
   // Bumped by host/join/cancelPending: a cancelled setup notices at its
   // next step and unwinds instead of connecting.
   int _op = 0;
@@ -309,7 +309,6 @@ class SessionState {
         if (crash != null && e is! ConnectCancelled) throw ServerCrashed(crash);
         rethrow;
       }
-      _watchKick();
       route.value = AppRoute.session;
     } finally {
       await _saveFormQuietly();
@@ -353,15 +352,6 @@ class SessionState {
     await stopServer();
   }
 
-  /// A kicked host must not keep serving.
-  void _watchKick() {
-    _stopKickWatch?.call();
-    _stopKickWatch = effect(() {
-      // Microtask: stopServer disposes this effect, not from inside it.
-      if (coordinator.kickReason.value != null) scheduleMicrotask(stopServer);
-    });
-  }
-
   /// Saved whatever the outcome: a failed join is exactly when the user
   /// wants the form back.
   Future<void> _saveFormQuietly() async {
@@ -387,8 +377,6 @@ class SessionState {
 
   Future<void> stopServer() async {
     coordinator.hostFile = null;
-    _stopKickWatch?.call();
-    _stopKickWatch = null;
     final server = _server;
     _server = null;
     await server?.stop();

apps/desktop/lib/src/state/settings.dart

@@ -25,6 +25,7 @@ const _keySoundsOff = 'soundsOff';
 const _keySoundPreset = 'soundPreset';
 const _keySoundPresetFor = 'soundPresetFor';
 const _keyUnreadyOnSwap = 'unreadyOnSwap';
+const _keyIdleSitsOut = 'idleSitsOut';
 
 enum HwdecMode { auto, off, custom }
 
@@ -39,6 +40,8 @@ class AppSettings {
   /// Session: send ready=false when the video changes (a swap keeps the
   /// server's ready flags).
   final unreadyOnSwap = signal(false);
+  /// Session: the idle auto-unready sits this member out instead.
+  final idleSitsOut = signal(false);
   /// Player design: the uosc controls (`controls/uosc/`) instead of the
   /// standard ones (media_kit's with our bars). Applies live.
   final mpvControls = signal(false);
@@ -95,6 +98,8 @@ class AppSettings {
       if (advance is bool) autoAdvance.value = advance;
       final unready = box.get(_keyUnreadyOnSwap);
       if (unready is bool) unreadyOnSwap.value = unready;
+      final idleOut = box.get(_keyIdleSitsOut);
+      if (idleOut is bool) idleSitsOut.value = idleOut;
       final mpv = box.get(_keyMpvControls);
       if (mpv is bool) mpvControls.value = mpv;
       final hideRe = box.get(_keyHideReReleases);
@@ -156,6 +161,11 @@ class AppSettings {
     _put(_keyUnreadyOnSwap, on);
   }
 
+  void setIdleSitsOut(bool on) {
+    idleSitsOut.value = on;
+    _put(_keyIdleSitsOut, on);
+  }
+
   void setMpvControls(bool on) {
     mpvControls.value = on;
     _put(_keyMpvControls, on);